I always say, secondary school friends are the dearest friends to me.
They are the ones who bothered to plan meet ups
Even though i'm a lazy pig.
(but at least i'm not so lazy till i refuse to go out even if they already planned stuffs)
Who bothered to ask how i am once in a while
or just the simple little actions that makes me feel loved.
Eelin, is one of them.
Knew her since secondary one.
Friendship still going strong till now.
:)
"A quarrel between friends, when made up, adds a new tie to friendship."
Yes, Eelin and I quarreled before!
Actually it's over something really small, dumb and stupid.
But at that time it seems huge la.
Haha.
The situation was quite bad i think.
Because my temper at that time is still....
*ahem*
Haha.
However, Eelin is really a great friend.
Usually people dont give a damn about having such a petty friend right?!
But she, she even made an effort to patch things up.
♥
However, because we went to different class during sec 2
we kind of just stopped talking
even though we werent on bad terms anymore.
Thank God, we became classmates again during sec 3 and 4.
Thus we became close friends again!
It's so easy for us because we really clicked well.
And having such a rare understanding friend
who would be so dumb to lose a friend like that right?
Of course must hold on and never let go!
:)
We entered the same jc, so making it easier to keep in contact.
We hanged out together with Gina once in a while.
We studied together.
Tuitioned together.
Hanged out together even after A levels.
And then, we werent that lucky anymore.
We couldnt go to the same uni.
):
She made her mind to study overseas.
No more hanging out so often together.
No more studying together etc.
One less good friend whom i can talk to so freely.
Laughing so much together.
She's the kind of friend most would probably take for granted.
For she is always willingly makes herself available for her friends.
Her way of showing love and care is not by big gestures
But by small little gestures..
Like how she accompanies me to tuitions since secondary school.
To the open houses.
Like how when the auntie in me who refuse to spend money
on things i like BUT can do without.
( i like but i dont want to spend my $ you know?!)
She'd offer me the sweets/drinks/food/whatever she bought.
Like how there was once i was meeting other friends at ECP
but not sure of the way there
Others would just tell you the directions.
But Eelin practically escorted me there.
She neednt to.
But she did it.
That's the kind of friend she is.
"A true friend is not like the rain which pours & goes away.
A true friend is like the air.
Sometimes silent but always around you."
I for one, really really really appreciate that.
All those small little things.
Thank you for touching my life in ways that you never know.
Freak, i'm going to miss you so much!!
(actually i am already, tearing abit while typing *sobs*)
I hope you wont sneeze so much as a result, haha.
But dont you worry!
I'm still here and wont ever forget about you!
Come back during your breaks to visit us please!
Then Carmen, you and i can hang out together again!
You know, Carmen and i think that today (your departure day)
would also be the 'last' meeting for both of us
since the reason the two of us would meet is because of you.
Hahah.
And please please please take care okay!
I know i nag alot in the little 'book' i prepared for you.
So i shan't nag here again.
Haha, dont blame me!
I think i got the naggy gene from my parents...
Yupps, so in conclusion.
Thank you for being such a great friend!
Study hard & take care!
And keep in contact!
If you dont, i will fly to Aussie to hunt you down!
Haha, you're probably still on the plane now.
Wont know when you'll actually read this.
Or even be able to read this at all.
Nevertheless, this post is not pointless!
At least i shared with the others what a good friend you are!
:)
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